Your marriage may not have been a success, but you can have a successful divorce

Jason Griffith

Indianapolis Star

During or after a stressful financial divorce all we think about is money and who has the upper hand with custody.

Why is that?

Surely there must be a much bigger picture than just the family court trying to get the most money out of parent(s) or put them up against each other for a mentally drained nasty custody battle. It seems like the conflict between the parents is more important than the behavior or the mental health of the child.

How do you expect parents to really co-parent whenever the custody situation is not fair? How do you expect the child to be fair in life where their examples in the home are not fair?